Who holds the power and who gets the pleasure in intimate encounters?

Many believe that a lot of sex happens while at university and so quantity beats the discussion to quality and that’s for all the wrong reasons. But when we talk about sex as well as consent, we must discuss pleasure and power and how these concepts interact with our perceptions of sex and desire to engage in it and actual behaviours.

Be it at parties, socials, trips, in romantic relationships, friendships or else, young folk end up in situations they wish they never were, or wonder how they could get out of. On the other hand, there are plenty of times they wish they could be so lucky as to have this or that happen at least once more. So how do we even get better at dealing with both of these extremes? And even more so, how much more complicated and difficult does it become when sex is…