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The Difference Between Learning to Cope Better — and Actually Healing
This is where many people leave therapy or coaching too early. They assume they have reached the destination, unaware that what they have reached is a transitional stage rather than the endpoint itself.
What they cannot yet see is that the crutches, while life-saving, are still evidence of an injury that has not fully healed — and that remaining in this middle space often sets the sta

Leah Spasova
7 min read


What Does It Take To Rekindle Your Intimacy?
When couples begin to understand the deeper dynamics shaping their intimate life, the focus often shifts in an important way. The goal is no longer to force intimacy back into the relationship or to perform certain behaviours that are supposed to create desire. Instead, the work becomes something far more meaningful: gradually removing the emotional, relational, and psychological barriers that have accumulated over time.

Leah Spasova
12 min read


Erectile Dysfunction - Why The Cure Promises Fail So Many Men So Badly
You have likely Googled the causes of erectile dysfunction, watched YouTube videos explaining the mechanics of erections, read articles about blood flow and testosterone, and listened to confident professionals telling you how to “fix” the problem through pelvic floor exercises, supplements, lifestyle changes, or hormone optimisation.

Leah Spasova
18 min read


The Relationship Mistakes Men Don’t Realise They’re Making — Until It’s Too Late...
There are certain truths we stumble into only after something precious has already broken — truths that feel obvious in hindsight but were invisible while we were living inside them. ...

Leah Spasova
13 min read


Leah, I Fight for Others but Not for Myself... Unpacking the Paradox
You can speak up in a meeting when your colleague is being dismissed. You can argue your sibling’s case, defend a stranger on the internet, advocate fiercely for your child or client or partner—and mean every word. But when it comes to your own needs, wants, feelings… your throat closes. Your inner monologue spins with doubt. You freeze. You placate. You shrink.

Leah Spasova
9 min read


How Is It The End Of The Year...Again?
Have you ever looked at the calendar and felt that strange ache — the one that whispers, “Wait... where did the year go?”
One moment you’re setting intentions, buying planners, swearing this will be your year. And then — just like that — it’s December again. You’re a little more tired. A little more stretched. Maybe even a little ashamed.

Leah Spasova
10 min read


5 Reasons Why Online Dating is Not What it Seems...
There are tons of reasons why online dating may not work for you, and these reasons may be shared by many others in the online dating commun

Leah Spasova
4 min read


Sessions That Pay Off Financially (Literally): The Unexpected Benefits My Clients Get Beyond Sex & Relationships
When people come to work with me, it’s usually because something in their intimate or relational world isn’t working — a desire for better communication, a need to reconnect with pleasure, a long-standing dynamic that’s become painful or unsustainable. But as many of my clients quickly discover, the impact of our work rarely stays in that narrow lane.

Leah Spasova
7 min read


Fast, Cheap, or Effective: When It Comes to Healing, You Can’t Have All Three
There’s something incredibly seductive about the promise of quick, structured therapy — six to eight sessions, problem solved, onto the next.

Leah Spasova
13 min read


"Is It Normal?" - Is The Wrong Question.
Is It Normal? In my experience as a psychologist specializing in sex and relationships, I often encounter clients grappling with the...

Leah Spasova
4 min read


Unravelling the Threads: Exploring Attachment and Dependency in Relationships
This article delves into the profound interplay between attachment styles and relationship dependencies, two pivotal aspects that shape our

Leah Spasova
8 min read


9 Essential Tips for Finding the Right Support for Your Personal Growth Journey
Navigating the journey of personal growth is an intricate process, requiring not only your dedication but also the guidance of a skilled pro

Leah Spasova
5 min read


5 Reasons Why Feminist Porn is Still Far From Serving Women's Desires
Feminist porn is a form of pornography that aims to challenge traditional gender roles and representations of sexuality, often featuring...

Leah Spasova
4 min read


The Value of Having a Growth Mindset in Life and for your Romantic & Intimate Relationships
When it comes to relationships, choosing a partner with a growth mindset can make all the difference in the long-term success and happiness

Leah Spasova
4 min read


The Best Book On The Why & How of Open Relationships & Polyamory
Much is written about open relationships, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory & all the possible relationship models that don't fit the monogamy

Leah Spasova
3 min read


A key Question to Ask Your Partner When Discussing What Turns You On
Asking this question can be very beneficial even for everyone. It can help you both to explore the different types of intimate play...

Leah Spasova
2 min read


Please, Don't Yuck On My Yum! On The Path To Wild, Passionate and Beautiful Intimacy
"Don't yuck on my yum" is an expression that refers to the act of judging or disapproving of someone else's interests, particularly when it

Leah Spasova
3 min read
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